The stronger reality absorbs the weaker one: ‘Frame’ is the contextual perceptional narrative you operate from in a social interaction. When somebody has a ‘strong frame’ it is the byproduct of having a strong reality or having a ‘strong sense of self’. When somebody has a strong sense of identity, or has high levels of… Continue reading Social invincibility: establishing superior frame control
The map is not the territory: blue pill conditioning The matrix analogy is often used to describe disengaging from an false artificial system of deception and illusion, into entering a world of reality and hidden truth. Most of us live never fully seeing the covert power tactics being played against us within the social &… Continue reading Installing a red pill lens: seeing the sexual marketplace in high resolution
Introduction: As I discussed on my last blog post titled ‘sexual polarity: the social magnetic tendencies between men and women’, a very damaging core primal wound inflicted in a young boys early life is not having a supportive & strong male role model. However, something which is equally as damaging is when a boy is… Continue reading Repolarising the feminised man: the narcissistic mother-son wound + reversing your default social polarity + inter-sexual dominance hierarchies
Fulfilling biological imperatives: survival and replication value + hypergamy The biological premise of attraction at its reactor core is ‘survival and replication value’ or aka ‘SRV’. Women are unconsciously seeking men with high survival value, and men are unconsciously seeking women with high replication value. Survival value is simplified as anything that assists with the… Continue reading Sexual polarity: social magnetic tendencies between the masculine and feminine
12# Iron rules of strong self-esteem The purpose of this article I came up with these iron rules the other day as a reference guide for myself to remind me of the fundamentals self-esteem. An ‘iron rule’ is a law of power. These iron laws are basically organisational principles to help restructure your thought patterns… Continue reading 12# Iron rules for strong self-esteem
The integrated male archetype I have always been inspired by strong male role models who have worked on themselves to the point they have achieved a level of equilibrium in their personality & accepted themselves for all of who they are. Where they have a balance of power: warmth / autonomy: interdependency. However, this type of… Continue reading 30# Principles to harness your masculine polarity: a guide for men to embody & amplify their healthy masculinity.
Introduction This was a massive revelation for me discovering what a actual boundary was. I specifically found out what a boundary was when I was 21 (I’m nearly 26 now). I have been aware of the concept for many years but after a hard breakup I realise now the power of practising healthy limit setting… Continue reading Lines in the sand: guide to healthy boundary setting. Protect yourself, increase respect from others & get what you want.
Introduction + resources to check out After recently reading Pete Walkers book titled ‘The tao of fully feeling: harvesting forgiveness out of blame’ it really triggered my fascination between the dynamics of ‘healthy blame’ & its opposite by definition ‘healthy forgiveness’. Pete Walker is a masterful author in discussing practical & informative knowledge on c-ptsd… Continue reading Chronic self-blame & forgiving abusers too rapidly
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