Detecting a soul vampire: 26# ways to spot when a narcissist is manipulating you

Covert power tactics:  Narcissistic abuse & manipulation typically is strategically camouflaged within destructive social games used to gain external validation,  generate feelings of superiority & to purposefully inflict damage of on peoples self-esteem as a protective survival mechanism. These games of toxic human chess operate typically behind the veil of consciousness and even plain sight, at… Continue reading Detecting a soul vampire: 26# ways to spot when a narcissist is manipulating you

Follow the leader: the importance of leading in relationships

Flexible cultural sex roles:  This article predominately focuses on how men can lead & initiate in heterosexual relationships. Though I do think its perfectly healthy for both men & women to make decisions within an relationship. Highly polarised gender roles typically can verge on being overly controlling, possessive & dysfunctional because they have an extremely one-sided imbalanced… Continue reading Follow the leader: the importance of leading in relationships

Social invincibility: establishing superior frame control

The stronger reality absorbs the weaker one: ‘Frame’ is the contextual perceptional narrative you operate from in a social interaction. When somebody has a ‘strong frame’ it is the byproduct of having a strong reality or having a ‘strong sense of self’. When somebody has a strong sense of identity, or has high levels of… Continue reading Social invincibility: establishing superior frame control

Installing a red pill lens: seeing the sexual marketplace in high resolution

The map is not the territory:  blue pill conditioning  The matrix analogy is often used to describe disengaging from an false artificial system of deception and illusion, into entering a world of reality and hidden truth. Most of us live never fully seeing the covert power tactics being played against us within the social &… Continue reading Installing a red pill lens: seeing the sexual marketplace in high resolution

Repolarising the feminised man: the narcissistic mother-son wound + reversing your default social polarity + inter-sexual dominance hierarchies

Introduction:  As I discussed on my last blog post titled ‘sexual polarity: the social magnetic tendencies between men and women’, a very damaging core primal wound inflicted in a young boys early life is not having a supportive & strong male role model. However, something which is equally as damaging is when a boy is… Continue reading Repolarising the feminised man: the narcissistic mother-son wound + reversing your default social polarity + inter-sexual dominance hierarchies

Sexual polarity: social magnetic tendencies between the masculine and feminine

Fulfilling biological imperatives: survival and replication value + hypergamy The biological premise of attraction at its reactor core is ‘survival and replication value’ or aka ‘SRV’. Women are unconsciously seeking men with high survival value, and men are unconsciously seeking women with high replication value. Survival value is simplified as anything that assists with the… Continue reading Sexual polarity: social magnetic tendencies between the masculine and feminine

12# Iron rules for strong self-esteem

12# Iron rules of strong self-esteem The purpose of this article I came up with these iron rules the other day as a reference guide for myself to remind me of the fundamentals self-esteem. An ‘iron rule’ is a law of power. These iron laws are basically organisational principles to help restructure your thought patterns… Continue reading 12# Iron rules for strong self-esteem