Social invincibility: establishing superior frame control

The stronger reality absorbs the weaker one: ‘Frame’ is the contextual perceptional narrative you operate from in a social interaction. When somebody has a ‘strong frame’ it is the byproduct of having a strong reality or having a ‘strong sense of self’. When somebody has a strong sense of identity, or has high levels of… Continue reading Social invincibility: establishing superior frame control

Installing a red pill lens: seeing the sexual marketplace in high resolution

The map is not the territory:  blue pill conditioning  The matrix analogy is often used to describe disengaging from an false artificial system of deception and illusion, into entering a world of reality and hidden truth. Most of us live never fully seeing the covert power tactics being played against us within the social &… Continue reading Installing a red pill lens: seeing the sexual marketplace in high resolution

Repolarising the feminised man: the narcissistic mother-son wound + reversing your default social polarity + inter-sexual dominance hierarchies

Introduction:  As I discussed on my last blog post titled ‘sexual polarity: the social magnetic tendencies between men and women’, a very damaging core primal wound inflicted in a young boys early life is not having a supportive & strong male role model. However, something which is equally as damaging is when a boy is… Continue reading Repolarising the feminised man: the narcissistic mother-son wound + reversing your default social polarity + inter-sexual dominance hierarchies

Sexual polarity: social magnetic tendencies between the masculine and feminine

Fulfilling biological imperatives: survival and replication value + hypergamy The biological premise of attraction at its reactor core is ‘survival and replication value’ or aka ‘SRV’. Women are unconsciously seeking men with high survival value, and men are unconsciously seeking women with high replication value. Survival value is simplified as anything that assists with the… Continue reading Sexual polarity: social magnetic tendencies between the masculine and feminine

‘Puer aeternus’: Peter pan syndrome

HOOK After recently watching legendary Steven Spielberg film ‘HOOK’  I felt compelled by the meaning behind the mythos. Essentially Pan is a misfit-like teenage warrior who rebels against adult pirates in a fictional paradise known as ‘Neverland’. The cornerstone of his legend is he leader of lost boys who all refuses to GROW UP!  From… Continue reading ‘Puer aeternus’: Peter pan syndrome

30# Principles to harness your masculine polarity: a guide for men to embody & amplify their healthy masculinity.

The integrated male archetype  I have always been inspired by strong male role models who have worked on themselves to the point they have achieved a level of equilibrium in their personality & accepted themselves for all of who they are. Where they have a balance of power: warmth / autonomy: interdependency. However, this type of… Continue reading 30# Principles to harness your masculine polarity: a guide for men to embody & amplify their healthy masculinity.

Lines in the sand: guide to healthy boundary setting. Protect yourself, increase respect from others & get what you want.

Introduction This was a massive revelation for me discovering what a actual boundary was. I specifically found out what a boundary was when I was 21 (I’m nearly 26 now). I have been aware of the concept for many years but after a hard breakup I realise now the power of practising healthy limit setting… Continue reading Lines in the sand: guide to healthy boundary setting. Protect yourself, increase respect from others & get what you want.